Picture a calm, glassy lake early in the morning, reflecting the sky with quiet clarity. If someone tosses a heavy stone into the water, ripples spread violently across the surface, disturbing the peace and stirring up silt from the bottom. For a long time, we were the ones throwing stones creating conflict, harboring resentments, and leaving broken relationships in our wake. Even after we stop the destructive behavior, the murky waters of past conflict can remain stirred up. Making a list of all persons we had harmed and becoming willing to make amends to them all requires us to examine the water and become willing to clear away the debris. Living at peace doesn't mean we can control how others react or guarantee that every relationship will be instantly mended. It means taking full responsibility for our side of the street, laying down our defenses, and letting go of the need to win every argument. When we stop manufacturing conflict and genuinely seek reconciliation, the turbulent waters settle, revealing the steady, unshakeable peace of God beneath. | 
