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Preventing Relapse Through Faith, Skills, and Daily Practice
Preventing Relapse
30-Lesson Relapse Prevention Course — A Faith-Based Curriculum for Families and Individuals in Recovery
By Steve Eisenhauer · © 2026 SS Eisenhauer Enterprises LLC
Important Disclaimer
This curriculum is intended for education, spiritual growth, relapse-prevention planning, and family support. It is not a substitute for professional medical, psychiatric, psychological, substance-use-disorder, or emergency care.
Addiction and withdrawal can involve serious medical risks. Anyone experiencing a possible overdose, dangerous withdrawal, severe intoxication, impaired driving risk, violence, self-harm risk, or another immediate emergency should seek appropriate emergency or medical assistance. Medication decisions and treatment changes should be made with qualified healthcare professionals.
Faith practices in this book are designed to complement—not replace—appropriate treatment, counseling, peer support, medical care, or other professional services. Facilitators should remain within their training and role. Family members are not responsible for controlling another person’s sobriety and should use appropriate boundaries and seek support for themselves when needed.
For Facilitators
Use trauma-aware, respectful language. Do not pressure participants to disclose details they do not wish to share publicly. Encourage professional or emergency support when needs exceed the scope of a peer, church, family, or educational setting.
How to Use This Course
Preventing Relapse is organized into 10 modules and 30 lessons. Each module contains three lessons, a module quiz, and a practical assignment. Every lesson includes learning objectives, core teaching, a faith connection, family/supporter application, recovery practice, prayer, and a dedicated workbook page.
For Individuals in Recovery
- Complete one lesson at a time and write directly in the workbook pages.
- Discuss difficult material with a sponsor, mentor, counselor, pastor, or trusted recovery support.
- Keep your personal relapse-prevention plan accessible and review it regularly.
- Do not wait for a crisis to use the tools; practice them while calm.
For Families and Supporters
- Learn the warning signs and agreed response plan without becoming a full-time monitor.
- Use boundaries that protect safety, finances, children, transportation, and the home.
- Support recovery actions while allowing the person in recovery to remain responsible for choices.
- Build your own support system and recovery practices as a family member.
For Facilitated Groups
- Suggested pacing: one lesson per session or one module across two to three sessions.
- Begin with a check-in, teach the lesson, complete selected workbook prompts, and end with prayer or a recovery
- commitment.
- Protect confidentiality while clearly explaining any safety limits that apply in your setting.
- Use the quizzes as review tools, not as measures of personal worth or spiritual maturity.
Course Outcomes
By the end of the 30 lessons, participants should be able to:
- Explain relapse as a process involving emotional, mental, and physical stages.
- Recognize personal warning signs before a crisis develops.
- Use emotional honesty, HALT, thought-checking, and trigger management tools.
- Build daily routines that strengthen sleep, connection, spiritual practice, and accountability.
- Use Scripture, prayer, worship, and Christian community as practical supports alongside appropriate professional care.
- Create and rehearse a personalized relapse-prevention safety plan.
- Prepare for high-risk events, travel, money, conflict, holidays, grief, and transitions.
- Respond quickly and safely after a slip rather than allowing shame to prolong relapse.
- Build family boundaries, accountability, fellowship, service, and long-term recovery goals.
- Develop a positive vision for a life of recovery, maturity, purpose, and hope.
Course Principle
Relapse prevention is not only about stopping the final act of using. It is the practice of noticing drift early, telling the truth, using support, and choosing the next action that protects recovery.
Recovery Commitments
Before beginning, write the commitments you want to bring into this course. These are not promises of perfection. They are agreements about how you will respond when recovery becomes difficult.
- I will practice honesty before I feel fully ready.
- I will ask for help earlier than I did in the past.
- I will treat cravings and warning signs as information, not commands.
- I will respect family boundaries and the safety of others.
- I will use professional or emergency help when a need is beyond peer or spiritual support.
- I will keep returning to the next faithful recovery action.
My personal commitment for this course:
Modules
- Understanding Relapse Before It Happens
- Emotional Relapse: Catching the First Signs
- Mental Relapse: The Battle in the Mind
- Physical Relapse: Stopping the Slide
- Building a Daily Recovery Structure
- Faith-Based Tools for Strength
- Managing Triggers & High-Risk Situations
- Creating a Personal Relapse Prevention Plan
- Building Community and Accountability
- Living in Long-Term Recovery
Book Companion Resources
The following resources accompany the published book. They are reference and workbook materials outside the graded activity sequence. Personal workbook notes may be kept privately.
Appendix A — Expanded Quiz Answer Key
Appendix A — Expanded Quiz Answer Key
Use the answer key to review concepts. Explanations are more important than the letter choice; the goal is to understand why the recovery principle matters.
Module 1
1. B — Viewing relapse as a process creates more points for early intervention.
2. A — Emotional changes can increase risk before conscious planning appears.
3. C — Shame attacks identity rather than focusing on a behavior that can be addressed.
4. A — Grace does not remove responsibility; it helps a person face truth without being defined by condemnation.
5. B — Specific actions are easier to follow when stress rises.
Module 2
1. B — HALT is a quick vulnerability check for hunger, anger, loneliness, and fatigue.
2. A — Isolation can remove protective connection.
3. B — Emotional honesty supports coping and reduces the need to numb.
4. C — Sustainable recovery includes rest and realistic limits.
5. B — Healthy coping creates space to experience and respond to emotion.
Module 3
1. C — Cravings can be strong without controlling behavior.
2. B — Bargaining creates an exception that minimizes risk.
3. B — Selective memory can romanticize past use.
4. B — Thought checking creates distance and supports wise action.
5. A — A truth-based action reinforces renewed thinking.
Module 4
1. B — Earlier emotional and mental changes often precede return to use.
2. B — The purpose is to identify multiple intervention points.
3. C — Rapid return interrupts escalation.
4. A — Overdose, dangerous withdrawal, impaired driving, and other emergencies require appropriate professional response.
5. B — Pre-decisions protect judgment under stress.
Module 5
1. B — Structure supports consistency and reduces improvisation during vulnerable periods.
2. B — Consistency matters more than complexity.
3. B — Reflection becomes useful when it leads to action.
4. A — Backup plans prevent a disrupted routine from becoming total abandonment.
5. B — Identifying vulnerable times helps build protective routines.
Module 6
1. B — Prayer and practical recovery actions can work together.
2. B — Preparation reduces the cognitive load of choosing under pressure.
3. B — Faith can support honest return and growth through difficult seasons.
4. B — Weakness can signal a need for rest, support, or treatment.
5. B — Trust may require consistent behavior over time.
Module 7
1. C — External triggers arise from the environment.
2. B — Prioritizing helps focus prevention efforts.
3. B — Some risks should be avoided, some modified, and some managed.
4. B — Planning across the whole event creates several points of protection.
5. A — An early exit can be wisdom rather than failure.
Module 8
1. B — Specific written plans are easier to use under stress.
2. B — These categories address connection, behavior, and thinking.
3. A — Redundancy makes the plan more resilient.
4. A — Scenario practice shows what is unclear or unavailable.
5. B — Higher risk calls for stronger connection and protective action.
Module 9
1. B — Connection supports honesty and early intervention.
2. B — Healthy accountability supports responsibility without control.
3. B — Outside supports can protect the marriage from becoming a monitoring system.
4. B — Service should grow from stability, not replace it.
5. B — Multiple healthy supports improve resilience.
Module 10
1. A — Stability can lead a person to remove practices that helped create it.
2. B — Recovery aims at a whole life, not only substance avoidance.
3. A — Transitions can change risk, routines, and available supports.
4. B — Vision gives prevention a positive direction while allowing adaptation.
5. B — Hope gives a positive reason to maintain recovery actions.
Appendix B — Master Relapse Prevention Plan
Appendix B — Master Relapse Prevention Plan
Complete this plan after Module 8 and review it after any major transition, near-relapse, or relapse. Keep a copy where you can reach it quickly.
1. My earliest warning signs
Warning sign What it looks like in me First response
Master Relapse Prevention Plan — Triggers and Supports
2. My highest-priority triggers
Trigger Avoid / Adjust / Accept Planned response
3. People I will contact
Name / role Best way to contact When I will call
Master Relapse Prevention Plan — Action Levels
LOW RISK — I notice mild drift or one warning sign
MEDIUM RISK — several warning signs, cravings, bargaining, or isolation
HIGH RISK — planning, access, active movement toward use, or immediate danger
Master Relapse Prevention Plan — Truths and Environment
Truths / Scripture references I need to remember
Environmental safeguards (money, transportation, contacts, locations, substances, devices)
Where copies of this plan will be kept
Appendix C — 30-Day Recovery Check-In
Appendix C — 30-Day Recovery Check-In
Use one line per day. Rate risk from 1 (low) to 5 (high). Record the most important warning sign and the action you took. This is a pattern-finding tool, not a scorecard for perfection.
Day Risk 1–5 Main feeling / trigger Recovery action Connection made?
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30-Day Recovery Check-In — Continued
Day Risk 1–5 Main feeling / trigger Recovery action Connection made?
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30-Day Recovery Check-In — Continued
Day Risk 1–5 Main feeling / trigger Recovery action Connection made?
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30-Day Pattern Review
Which warning signs appeared most often?
Which actions lowered risk most effectively?
Which days or times were consistently harder?
What will I change for the next 30 days?
Appendix D — Family Recovery and Boundary Guide
Appendix D — Family Recovery and Boundary Guide
Recovery affects the whole family. Healthy support combines compassion, truth, safety, and boundaries. A family cannot force recovery, but it can choose how the household will respond to recovery-supporting and recovery-threatening behavior.
Support is not surveillance
- Ask about the agreed recovery plan rather than searching constantly for proof.
- Describe observations rather than assuming motives.
- Encourage outside accountability so the family is not the entire recovery system.
- Protect children and vulnerable household members from unsafe behavior.
Boundaries are statements of what I will do
- A boundary is not a threat designed to control another person.
- A boundary should be clear, realistic, and enforceable.
- Examples may involve transportation, money, substances in the home, overnight guests, violence, or access to children.
- Family members may need professional, pastoral, legal, or peer support when situations are complex.
Family Conversation Worksheet
What behaviors help our home feel safe and recovery-supporting?
What behaviors require a boundary or change in plan?
How will we communicate when risk rises?
Who supports the family members—not only the person in recovery?
Trust Rebuilding Plan
Trust usually grows through repeated behavior over time. Choose a small number of observable commitments rather than demanding immediate emotional certainty.
Area Recovery-supporting behavior How progress will be reviewed
What forgiveness means to us:
What trust requires over time:
Appendix E — Trigger and High-Risk Event Worksheets
Appendix E — Trigger and High-Risk Event Worksheets
Trigger Inventory
Trigger Internal / External Intensity 1–5 Frequency 1–5 Response
High-Risk Event Plan
Event / date / location
BEFORE — rest, food, prayer, support, transportation, money plan
DURING — safe people, time limit, check-in, coping tools
EXIT — warning signs that mean I leave and how I will leave
AFTER — call, meeting, review, rest
People who know this plan
Appendix F — Rapid-Return and Crisis-Safety Planning
Appendix F — Rapid-Return and Crisis-Safety Planning
This worksheet is for use after a slip, near-relapse, or rapid increase in risk. It does not replace medical or emergency care. If there is immediate danger, possible overdose, dangerous withdrawal, violence, self-harm risk, or another emergency, seek appropriate emergency or medical assistance.
FIRST 2 HOURS — safety and honesty
FIRST 24 HOURS — reconnect and stabilize
Rapid-Return Plan — 72 Hours and Review
FIRST 72 HOURS — restore structure and support
What happened before the slip?
What will change in my prevention plan now?
Appendix G — Recovery Glossary
Appendix G — Recovery Glossary
Accountability: A structured relationship or process in which recovery commitments are discussed honestly and reviewed consistently.
Avoid / Adjust / Accept: A trigger-management framework: avoid unnecessary risk, adjust situations that can be modified, and accept/manage what cannot be controlled.
Behavior chain: The sequence of vulnerabilities, thoughts, emotions, situations, and actions that leads toward a target behavior such as relapse.
Boundary: A clear statement of what a person will or will not participate in, allow, provide, or do in response to behavior.
Craving: An urge or desire that can include thoughts, emotions, memories, and body sensations; it is an experience, not a command.
Emotional relapse: A stage of relapse risk in which emotions, self-care, honesty, or relationships begin drifting even if the person is not consciously planning to use.
External trigger: A person, place, object, event, route, smell, sound, money situation, or other environmental cue associated with increased risk.
Faith toolbox: Prepared spiritual practices—such as Scripture references, prayer, worship, and trusted faith connections— paired with practical recovery actions.
HALT: A quick check for Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired—four common vulnerability states.
High-risk situation: A circumstance that combines triggers, vulnerability, access, pressure, or reduced support in a way that increases relapse risk.
Internal trigger: An emotion, thought, body sensation, memory, pain state, or other internal experience associated with increased risk.
Mental relapse: A stage in which conscious craving, bargaining, romanticizing, justification, or planning begins competing with recovery goals.
Physical relapse: The return to substance use or another target addictive behavior—the final visible link in a longer process.
Rapid-return plan: A written first-hours and first-days response designed to stop a slip from becoming a prolonged relapse.
Recovery anchor: A repeatable daily or weekly practice that provides structure, such as sleep time, meetings, prayer, meals, exercise, or check-ins.
Relapse-prevention plan: A written guide that identifies warning signs, triggers, people, actions, truths, safe places, and safeguards to use when risk increases.
Resilience: The capacity to continue healthy action, recover from setbacks, and adapt to difficulty with support and skills.
Slip: A limited return to use or target behavior that requires immediate safety, honesty, support, and plan revision; it does not have to become prolonged relapse.
Trigger: A cue or condition that increases relapse risk but does not determine behavior.
Warning sign: A change in behavior, emotion, thinking, routine, relationships, or spirituality that may signal rising relapse vulnerability.
Appendix H — Facilitator and Resource Guide (optional leader resource)
Appendix H — Facilitator and Resource Guide
Suggested 60–75 Minute Session Flow
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Opening check-in and prayer — 10 minutes
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Review prior practice — 10 minutes
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Teach the lesson — 20 minutes
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Workbook / discussion — 20 minutes
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Recovery commitment and closing prayer — 10 minutes
Facilitation Principles
- Teach the material; do not diagnose participants.
- Invite participation without requiring public disclosure of private trauma or relapse details.
- Redirect crisis, medical, psychiatric, legal, or clinical needs to appropriate qualified services.
- Keep faith language invitational and grounded in the stated Christian purpose of the curriculum.
- Encourage family members to use boundaries and their own supports rather than becoming controllers of another
- person’s recovery.
- Review the personal relapse-prevention plan repeatedly, especially around transitions and high-risk events.
Common Recovery Supports
- Licensed or certified substance-use treatment providers
- Medical and mental-health professionals
- Pastoral care and church-based recovery ministries
- Peer-recovery meetings and mutual-support groups
- Sponsors, mentors, recovery coaches, and sober peer networks
- Family support groups and counseling
- Recovery housing and structured community supports
- Emergency services when immediate safety is at risk
Facilitator Notes and Attendance
Session / Lesson Date Attendance / Notes Follow-up
Course Completion Reflection
Finishing a relapse-prevention course does not finish recovery. Use this final reflection to identify what you will keep practicing.
The three warning signs I now recognize earliest:
The three recovery tools that help me most:
The people who are part of my support network:
The spiritual practices I want to continue:
The family or relationship changes I want to protect:
My next 90-day recovery goal:
My reason for continuing recovery when life becomes difficult:
Closing Prayer
God, thank You for every truth learned, every relationship strengthened, and
every step of recovery taken. Help me remain watchful without fear, humble
without shame, accountable without hopelessness, and faithful one day at a time. Give me courage to notice early, tell the truth, use support, and choose
the next recovery-protecting action. Amen.
